Instead, try: and let them lead. Sometimes they will unload every detail of the cafeteria drama, and sometimes they will just say "Good" and ask for a snack. Both responses are okay. They are processing a massive amount of stimulation. A favorite snack and a quiet afternoon are the best way to decompress.
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"First Day of School: A Fresh Start on Candid HD" Instead, try: and let them lead